Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 10 months agoWhat are some green flags in a partner in your opinion?message-squaremessage-square53fedilinkarrow-up1129arrow-down111file-text
arrow-up1118arrow-down1message-squareWhat are some green flags in a partner in your opinion?Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 10 months agomessage-square53fedilinkfile-text
I’ll start: if they have hobbies it’s a green flag for sure, doubly so if their hobbies are outlets for creativity.
minus-squareZeth0s@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down11·edit-210 months agoRed flag for me: if a partner judges hobbies based on some arbitrary definition of “creativity”. It is usually red flag for snobby partners. Gardening or gaming are as good as painting
minus-squaredeur@feddit.nllinkfedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down2·10 months agoI think lacking reading comprehension and arguing in bad faith are worse red flags than the one you’ve painted.
minus-squareZeth0s@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down3·edit-210 months agoYou see, this is a good thing. Different red flags save different people from incompatible partners.
Red flag for me: if a partner judges hobbies based on some arbitrary definition of “creativity”. It is usually red flag for snobby partners.
Gardening or gaming are as good as painting
I think lacking reading comprehension and arguing in bad faith are worse red flags than the one you’ve painted.
You see, this is a good thing. Different red flags save different people from incompatible partners.