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lol do you always assume anyone who disagrees with you is acting in bad faith? Whst a convenient way to shield yourself from uncomfortable truths.
No wonder you’re desperate to lock someone into a relationship with you asap, you sound nuts.
lol do you always assume anyone who disagrees with you is acting in bad faith? Whst a convenient way to shield yourself from uncomfortable truths.
No wonder you’re desperate to lock someone into a relationship with you asap, you sound nuts.
Paranoia wtf? I’ve formed my opinions from my life experiences, are you trying to tell me you’ve done peer reviewed research to decide what makes a good relationship?
I was with my wife for 10 years before I proposed. We have the best relationship of anyone we know. I know plenty of people who married after a couple of years and are fucking miserable.
This is terrible advice. Most people’s “gut” reactions are heavily based on external influences like peer group pressure, media influence and upbringing.
Practice critical thinking.
If you’re in a good relationship but they leave because they couldn’t wait 4 years to get married, then you fucking dodged a bullet. Jesus fucking christ.
Find a skill based hobby that you love and practice it every week. Stuff like a sport, musical instrument, art, etc. The hobby itself will be rewarding but there is no substitute for having decades of experience under your belt for these kind of activities.
Also, don’t have children.
I’ve been a programmer for decades and I still sometimes look at code I wrote 6 months ago like what the fuck was I thinking. Code is as much art as science.
“I bomb atomically, Socrates’ philosophies and hypotheses can’t define how I be dropping these mockeries”
WUN PUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
This… doesn’t look real? Like, what position is that cat at the top in?
Not calling anyone out, obviously it could be legit, just looks very strange to me.
Soulseek is the best option I’ve found for this: https://www.slsknet.org/news/node/1
It’s an old style file sharing app, like Napster and Limewire, but is focused on underground music. I’ve been using it for years and had no problems with spyware or anything like that.
“Yikes”.
Effectively firing half the employees seems like a strong sign that the new owners are going to ruin what made Bandcamp good.
I’m so fucking tired, you guys.
“Good looking” can run a very wide gamut here, but let’s assume your expectation there is reasonable. These are all attributes that most people want out of a partner, so you’re in the same boat most other people are. Are you actually going on dates and attempting to meet someone that fits these criteria?
It sounds like you aren’t, and if the reason you aren’t is because you’re in love with a fictional person, then you should get some professional help. That isn’t reasonable or normal and is probably a symptom of wider issues in your life.
This is sensible as long as the qualities you’re looking for are realistic and reasonable.
It’s fine to not be interested in a relationship. But to be like that because you’re in love with a fictional character is dysfunctional and almost certainly a result of wider issues in your life. I think a doctor or therapy of some sort could be highly beneficial to you.
Carlin’s podcast (and a lot of popular history podcasts) are generally considered fairly poor by academic historians, in regard to accurately portraying modern historical research. I think those kinds of podcasts are good to engage and stimulate interest in history, as long as the listener understands that they are a kind of “pop” history and should be taken with a grain of salt.
Same goes for a lot of popular books, like Sapiens.
lol you’re the one who came in swinging with “for all I know!” “you could be lying!” as soon as I pressed you on a point. That’s the definition of a bad faith argument, you’re not acctually trying to engage with points of discussion you’re just trying to “win” the conversation.