Well, depends on the farm. Farms I grew up on and around were and are kind to their animals, even if they are going to get slaughtered close to the end of their life.
Big corporate factory farms (IE Perdue) keep their animals in conditions bad enough they’d be better in the wild
There’s about 8 of us in our late 20s-30s and my partner and I see at least 2 of them every weekend. None of us have any kids so that probably helps, easy enough to fit it in our schedule