Oh my God 🥹 It’s so fluffy.

Travel, learn an instrument, work out, visit more festivals, concerts, museums.

Same. Idike to tone it down to 32h/week or even better 24h/week. So 8, respectively 6 hours a day for four days. Working for a non-profit organisation and even though we a trade agreement, because we’re unionised, living in a city on my own I couldn’t pay the bills if I’d cut hours.

You obviously haven’t seen me.

Just a wild thought… why didn’t you, dateless as you were, just date each other?

That’s you and me, somewhat tech savvy users. Your usual user won’t find that.

That actually explains it quite good. Thanks!

What you described was not what I tried to say by using the term “friend zone”.

I won’t. I have hobbies. I have hobbies I’m passionate about. If it doesn’t click for other people but it does for me but they still don’t have a problem with being friends what else should it be called other than friend zone?

I dunno man. Would be too much hassle for me. I’m in my 30s and struggle not falling into depression every time I get friend zoned, which happens all the time. Dating sucks. I just want to be loved. Having children, being a manager (especially in my field / NGO where politics is a big part of the job) is just way too stressful.

Is this the Chernobyl edition?

Bango

I somewhat feel like I’m being addressed here. I can only speak for myself but I’d agree, that this is more like being myself. Yet things/reactions that happened in my childhood/youth are ingrained so deep in my brain, that barriers where formed and the true self is somewhere in there.

Drinking partly breaks down those barriers. Good friends I had for a few years now also helped with this, so around them it became easier being “myself”.

Nah not really. I only ever used reddit and YouTube. I’m not the kind of person for social media. When u/spez had his fit and the subs went on strike I quit reddit, because I don’t like to be pushed around and getting screwed by some greedy corpo prick. Also, privacy. I rarely ever post something myself. I mostly write comments. But the amount of commenting is the same here as it was on reddit.

I just heard about LibRedirect, so that’s the next step to give less data to Google.