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Cake day: March 12th, 2024

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  • You’re a teenager. Slow down. Getting to a healthy weight is great. Being physically fit is great.

    Focusing on the size, shape of your muscles is probably unhealthy. Talk to a doctor.

    Body dimorphism is a real problem for young men your age. And, as others have said, everyone is different. Bodies are different, they respond to exercise and diet differently, they develop at different rates and have different limits. When you’re young it’s possible to do more harm than good if you push too far too fast.

    You’ve accomplished a lot, already. Get on a program that focuses on health and be patient.


  • In don’t think anyone can tell you from a photo. You need an arborist to look at it.

    You can talk to the neighbor and express your concern. Ideally, have a paper trail in case something does happen.

    You can have an arborist trim any branches hanging over your property without asking the neighbor.

    I would get an estimate from a couple arborists for the trimming what’s over your yard. Then, approach the neighbor and offer to pay that amount towards having the whole thing trimmed—must include trimming the parts over your yard.

    I wouldn’t pay until the work is done.

    If you don’t know the neighbor at all and/or can’t be sure they’re trustworthy, I’d just get the part over your yard done.