The lemmy instance works fine so far. I had some problems migrating the nginx config file from the lemmy manual migrated to traefik, but it works with this guide here.
I’m not really forwarding ports, but I’m rather using a more complex setup. I have two devices - my router and an external VPS hosted in a datacenter. These devices are connected via WireGuard. On the VM where all my services are installed there is traefik installed which is used as reverse proxy for the services and does TLS. The VPS has HAProxy configured to the internal VM in TCP mode, which makes the services available from outside and is important to get valid Let’s Encrypt certificates as I’m not using DNS Verification.
I know it’s a bit hard to understand, but it works fine for me and I’m not depending on any third-providers (other than the Hoster of the VPS, which I can easily swap if needed).
I’m using a SuperMicro A2SDi-4C-HLN4F for my NAS.
It takes like 20-30W with 4 3.5" SATA HDDs and one M2 SSD installed. It has IPMI and I’m running it with FreeBSD 13.2, works like a charm. You just need to be aware that you need to adjust the SATA ports in the bios in order to use all 4 of them, by default only 2 SATA ports and the SAS interface will be enabled.
The temps are fine on the cpu without fan - I only have three fans in front of the drives.