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    2 months ago

    “rocinante” for my proxmox host.

    “awkward, past his prime, and engaged in a task beyond his capacities.” From don Quixote’s wiki page.

    It seemed fitting considering it is a server built from old PC parts…engaged in tasks beyond its abilities.

    The rest of my servers (VMs moslty) are named for what they actually do/which vlan they are on (eg vm15) and aren’t fun or excitin names. But at least I know if I am on that VM it has access to that vlan(or that it’s segregated from my other networks).




  • Dave Ramsey is one of those guys where you have to eat the fish but leave the bones.

    A lot of what he teaches is really great, practical advice–aimed at people who really might not understand financial basics.

    Things like budgeting, saving, investing in mutual funds, and avoiding debt like the plague. That’s all fantastic financial advice. The whole "borrower is servant to the lender stuff pulled right out of the Bible is stuff that most on here would agree with. Debt is a way to force people into financial serfdom.

    But occasionally he says stupid shit like this. And maybe it’s taken out of context, but probably not. He always has advocated busting your ass to get out of debt and start saving. He calls it getting “gazelle” intense about it(basically saying banks, lenders, etc are lions trying to kill you). Again, not too far off from whatost people agree with.

    So, he’s advocated getting multiple jobs if you need to until you can right your financial ship.

    But he’s also an proponent of advocating for yourself and getting better jobs and ditching the second job as soon as you can. So I dunno. He says dumb stuff but he’s also pretty practical overall. Like I said eat the fish, leave the bones.




  • I don’t have nearly that much worth backing up(5TB–and realistically only 2TB is probably critical), but I have a Synology Nas(12TB raid 1) and truenas (zfs striped/mirrored) that I back my stuff to (and they back up to each other).

    Then I have a raspberry pi with a USB drive (8tb) at my parents house 4 hours away, that my Synology backs up to (over tailscale).

    Oh, and I have a USB HDD(8tb) that I plug in and backup my Synology Nas to and throw in my fireproof safe. But thats a manual backup I do once every quarter or 6 months if I remember. That’s a very very last resort backup.

    My offsite is at my parents.

    And no, I have not tested it because I don’t know how I’m actually supposed to do that.






  • There are a ton of negative comments on here, but i think the reality is: people value different things.

    When you have certain values you will sacrifice certain things to practice those values/achieve those goals.

    Some people value charity work because helping the community and people makes them feel good–even if it’s more work on their plate.

    Some people sacrifice their personal lives to achieve a career goal. Sometimes that’s for financial reasons, sometimes that’s for ego reasons, sometimes it’s “meeting a challenge”.

    Some people will sacrifice their career to have less stress or focus on their family. Some people value their hobbies, relationships, personal interests to the point where they’ll pick jobs that let them focus on those things–even if those jobs don’t pay as well, even if they aren’t “progressing” up the ladder.

    And for what it’s worth, your values (may) shift over time. I never wanted kids for the longest time. Then I did.

    I valued career progression for ego and financial reasons–and now, that’s shifted.

    I sacrificed spending time with my friends when I had my kid, but now I am putting a lot of effort into those friendships because I value them and that requires work. That means I didn’t take a job offer that would have paid more, so I would have time for my family and friends.

    I value those things more at this point.

    I value my time playing computer games, so I sacrifice my sleep so I can do that. :)



  • Breaking things is the best way to learn. Accidentally deleting your container data is one of the best ways to learn how to not do that AND learn about proper backups.

    Breaking things and then trying to restore from a backup that…doesn’t work. Is a great way to learn about testing backups and/or properly configuring them.

    The corrolary to this is: just do stuff. Analysis paralysis is real. You can look up a dozen “right ways” to do things and end up never starting.

    My advice: just start. If you end up backing yourself into a corner where you can’t scale or easily migrate to another solution, oh well. You either learn that lesson or figure out a way to migrate. Learning all along the way.

    Each failure or screw up is worth a hundred “best practice / how to articles”.