I’ve been there. For me, personally, the problem was that I was so afraid to open up and worshipped so much other people that I pretty much lost myself. I ended up being surrounded by people who aren’t interested in me, who don’t fit me. And then when I started discovering myself, opening up more and being more sincere, I just attracted the right people who I always know what to talk about and who are interested in me. But this is of course my personal experience, your situation might be entirety different.
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Thanks! If I don’t lose Internet access which can happen where I live, I’ll definitely come back XD
Great expression, never heard of it before 😅
Io invece lo sto imparando! Amo la lingua e la cultura
This is so true… Like I literally can’t understand lyrics even in my native language
Very inspiring! I think you convinced me to give it a good try. Thanks for your story and the links!
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How many of you are non-native English speakers?
11·3 months agoThis sounds almost as if you’re disappointed XD
So many people from Germany here on Lemmy! I wonder why that is. Maybe free software movement is a bit more popular there? There seem to be so many good German open-source projects!
Two native languages, cool! One or both of your parents are Russian?
Well native speakers learn the pronunciation first, so it’s harder for them to distinguish between different forms of the same sound combination
Che figata!
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How many of you are non-native English speakers?
20·3 months agoOh boy, I got so confused when I was a beginner and some American kid told me “would of” is an alternative to “would have”
Oh wow, it’s so cool you speak Esperanto! Can you share your experience with it? Where do you use it? What good Esperanto communities are there? Do you find it actually useful? In what ways did it enrich your life?
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What content creators would you recommend me based on the ones I follow?
2·3 months agoWow, a very useful and visual summery of disagreement types! Will use it a lot
Should’ve mentioned that, I think
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why are people afraid of commitment in relationships?
8·3 months agoBad relationship with their parents in their childhood taught them to be afraid of being in a close relationship. This is both extremely messed up and tragic.
Oh yeah, I can relate, a lot of confusion when you’re just starting. I sweared so much during my first month of using NixOS… But I’m glad to hear you like it!

Having a second server might be a good opportunity to learn kubernetes