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  • Ahh no, I never lived in the 90s UK as well. I just quite like the feel of it.

    90s america is a bit cozy as well.

    Something about it being before the beginning of the new century and milenium makes it very cozy.

    Can’t speak for rights for marginalized groups here since the whole 80s and 90s thing of gays and AIDS being falsely linked and having had a president that laughed at the situation ( may he rest in Hell ).

    In that regards yeah, most countries only legalized gay marriage in the 21st century. It’s sort of sad.








  • I guess, I can see what you are trying to say. I don’t disagree with what you are saying. But It doesn’t work for me specifically.

    All my “achievements”(any that I value) have only been through blood and sweat, and that is partly one of the reasons I dread beginning something new - It will be that difficult all over again.

    What I assume to be equal amounts of effort as anyone else, never usually results in the same outcomes. I spent a year to learn a language, and I am still A1. Now, A1 isn’t bad, but I really wanted to have learnt at least B1 by now. I know others who have done that.

    I find it hard to find motivation day in and day out to do things everyday. I want to paste the Vaas meme here. I am enjoying the little things, but there is such existential anxiety that makes it difficult to enjoy even those.

    So I can’t just like the process as it is either.

    I am not sure, but I guess I have to change what my “process” is.