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  • Steal what people have to lose and they’ll start acting like they’ve nothing left to lose…

    The sheer unfairness of it stings and festers, I agree and feel the same as you. There’s some solace in knowing there was never really anything I could have done differently, except perhaps lived a little more decadently, although I’m not sure that would have made me much happier at the time and probably would have made me even more poorly prepared, mentally, for the austerity to come.

    My parents were strategic geniuses for having this book in the house when I was a kid. I believe it helped my slow lifetime acceptance of the ‘life is no fair’ fact.









  • Gordon Calhoun@lemmy.worldtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.worldHow to properly flirt?
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    3 days ago

    Started? I think the culture was already there and well established. The book just shone light on its existence to the mainstream, and yeah, probably accelerated its growth.

    Edit: the irony being it was, kind of, trying to help involuntarily celibate men to figure out ways to be less celibate through seduction (vice even less moral, and more illegal, means).

    Edit edit: a far, far worse book is The Professional Bachelor by Brett Tate. Anyone who ever wants to taste their own vomit should give it a glance.