“let me know what you think”

I think your advice is very obvious and too specific to your situation. The section about what kind of person you should be isn’t relevant.

One useful nugget of information in your post is that your local library may offer services beyond borrowing books.

Sorry, if you have good intentions I appreciate you sharing what you think is helpful. But you asked for comment so I’m explaining the downvotes.

Is it viable for you to get your own apartment and turn off yor phone?

Maybe once you experience isolation, you’ll find that you miss human interaction after all, or you are happy living alone.

You just dug up the rap song Happy Birthday by Flipsyde ft. Piper from the depths of my memory after it had been buried for 14 years.

A foggy quiet morning. It reminds me of how my mom would walk me to kindergarten.

It’s fine. Growing up I also shared a bed with my sister who is 8 years my senior. We didn’t always have a good relationship with our parents which probably made us all the closer. Like you said, sleeping in the same bed, nothing weird.

As a man: Prepare to be rejected over and over, to feel disposible and useless, unwanted and nobody likes you and you will never be as good as other men and you might as well end it now.

As a woman: Prepare to meet men who have the biggest mommy issues, to be called an entitled bitch and everybody who likes you will promptly abandon you once they figure out who you really are.

These apps prey on your worst anxieties about yourself, and then sell you the remedy: An outrageously expensive subscription to skip past the chaff and find your true life mate. Except, then you’d leave the platform, and you’d stop paying up. Match group is busy gobbling up every dating app they can get their hands on and they will stop at nothing to turn them all into the same steaming pile of shit.

Destroyer is a band whose lyrics I consistently love

“She needs release, she needs to feel at ease with her father (pause) the fucking maniac.” (from European Oils)

“A snow angel’s a fucking idiot somebody made. A fucking idiot someone made in the snow” (from June)

“I piss on the floorboards, the whole world’s a stage” (from Eat The Wine, Drink The Bread)

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fixed, thank you!

you’re right, my bad

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Thanks for sharing your experience!! I really appreciate the long genuine post. There’s a lot everyone can learn from your experience.

i get what you’re saying, you match with other guys all the time but being on one wavelength with one is a different story. i guess i just wasn’t made for these apps.

please be careful dude, it’s mega bad for your mental well being and especially your self worth

that song is where this phrase found its way into my vocabulary - didn’t expect it to be that recognizable. makes sense tho as the correct expression would probably just be “pastime” whereas “pastime activity” is unique to this song

Definitely. I’ve had more jobs through applications (2) than dates through apps (0) ^^ The best I’ve got was an extended conversation with a guy who seemed kind

When I was in middle school, the techy kid walked up to me with a piece of metal in his hand and said, hey, did you know you can take out this part of a lighter and use it as a taser? I thought he was cool and immediately took a liking to him. Turns out we took the same train to school, and soon enough we’d share our train rides. Soon after, he started staying over at my place. One day he was chilling on my bed and installed something on his laptop called “Mandriva Linux”. This is the day I met GNU/Linux <3

The shorts format died for me the day Vine went down

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No, I’m implying that Germany’s real intention is not to help holocaust survivors, but to keep up good relations with Israel’s government.