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  • Bingo. I’m 40. This dissolving social life issue is exactly what I went through after I turned 30.

    It’s two things. One, from this point on your social life needs to be actively managed and maintained. When you’re younger, life’s circumstances do that for you. From here on out, it’s all has to be the result of your own effort.

    And two, to do that you will need to work on yourself. The rails your life is on when you’re younger often mask and excaccerbate personal issues which, absent those rails, come out to others as toxicity you may be blind to. I say this without irony, find a good therapist and dig into your problems. Learn more about yourself and your past. Find a physical activity you enjoy and exercise daily. Improve your diet. If you have the means, go to all your medical appointments regularly.

    It’s scary because it all has to be actively managed from here on out. But once you get a hold of it again (After getting ahold of yourself) it’s that much more actualizing as it’s an intentional social life of your own creation. Perhaps a smaller sphere than before, but just as meaningful if not more. It will take time, maybe a year or two. But you’ve got an upward trajectory in front of you.

















  • Sorry, I thought you were the kind of person who could handle a little casual disagreement. I don’t mind that you think security was the primary purpose of phone OS app land, and I definitely wouldn’t presume you arrived at that assessment from ignorance as you’re a stranger who I don’t know and that would be both foolish and needlessly insulting. But everything I’ve watched phone companies do over the past 20 years demonstrates to me that a desire for control was the main intent. You don’t have to agree, in fact I think it’s silly to spend all day debating it because it really is a subjective matter.


  • infinitesunrise@slrpnk.nettoRetroGaming@lemmy.worldAnyone else guilty of this?
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    4 months ago

    The app store and permission model hasn’t stopped malicious code from making it onto users devices. So if security was the concern, I’d say that’s a failure. But I think the primary concern was control. Control by manufacturers (And eventually, thereby states) of what people see and do on their phone. Make sure they have to pay for access to features. Easily surveil what they do.

    Security is very often the excuse for control.